Carla May Rosenquist-Buhler
Carla May Rosenquist-Buhler peacefully left this world, which she loved so well, on October 6, 2022. The cause of death was metastatic cancer.
She was the daughter of Carl E. Rosenquist II and Isabel (Hamilton) Rosenquist. A native Californian, she embraced all kinds of natural surroundings, from the Pacific Ocean to mountains of Cleveland National Forest, where she lived for several years. She eventually embraced the gentle hills of eastern Nebraska, as well.
Carla was, at various times, a journalist, a poet and fiction writer, a preschool teacher, a children’s librarian, a corporate librarian, and an academic librarian. She earned tenure and promotion to Associate Professor of Libraries at the University of Nebraska-Lincoln. Her true calling, however, turned out to be tending the earth. She was certified as a Master Gardener, even after her first traumatic illness, which included a stroke. She was also dedicated to transforming a piece of southeastern Nebraska back into prairie and forward into permacultural gardening and farming.
Carla was a warrior and inspiration, a lover of life and the arts, sweet or fierce (sometimes both sweet and fierce) as she thought the occasion required.
Carla is survived by her husband of 39 years, Stephen M. Buhler, and their daughter, Teresa R. Buhler, as well as by her brother Carl E. Rosenquist III and her brother James Rosenquist and his wife, Maureen (Provencher) Rosenquist, also by her brother-in-law Dennis Davis. Other survivors include her aunt (by marriage) Geri Dawson, her brother-in-law Daniel Buhler and his wife, Carol Sheridan, her sister-in-law Karen Jones and her husband, Russell Jones, her sister-in-law Mary Buccola and her husband, James Buccola.
She was preceded in death by her parents and by her sister, Amy Rosenquist Davis.
Celebrations of Life will take place at a later time in Nebraska and in California. Memorials to Doctors Without Borders and Arbor Day Foundation.
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Funeral Home assisting is Aspen Mortuary, 4822 Cleveland Avenue, Lincoln, NE 68504. To view an on-line obituary or email condolences please visit Aspen Mortuary’s website at www.aspenaftercare.com.
Condolences for Carla May Rosenquist-Buhler
Stephen and Tessa. We are truly sorry for your loving wife and mother passing away. With relatatives and friends around you now, we wish you comfort and direction. Carla was a beautiful kind soul and I cherished her as a friend. Our condolences Bill and Peg
Dear Steve, Tess, dear extended family members: I am so very sorry for your loss. Carla’s resilience has always amazed me. I hope that you will be able to draw much needed energy and comfort from her wonderful fighting spirit. My thoughts are with you all. Marco
Steve and Tessa,
Our hearts are heavy and our thoughts are with you and all of Carla’s family in your loss.
Paula Ray & Bob Hall
My deepest sympathy to Steve and to Tess. Carla was a wonderful person and a good friend. She lavished her gardening expertise on my small garden
years ago, and the Rudbeckia gigantica is tall, thriving, and returns every summer to remind me of the dear person who planted it. Blessings and prayers to you both.
Sending love to you, your daughter and family. She left so much for others to enjoy with her gardening and she touched many people. Thinking of you at this difficult time.
Dear Carla, Rip my dear friend. Sending Steve and Tessa my
condolences from both Mike Henderson and I. Sending your family prayers and thoughts. You’ll be missed. Thank you for being such beautiful friend, second Mom, and much more. We miss you!
Stephen and Tessa, Carla was a warrior in life, who loved her family, nature and the earth. She brought love and laughter to everyone she knew, and her passing leaves a real void. I am deeply, deeply sorry for your loss, and hope that you are comforted, at least in part, by the many memories of your time together. With my sincere condolences, Wheeler
I am so sorry that I never got to meet Carla. Very much my loss.
We are so, so sorry for your loss. We are also humbled and inspired by the long, loving relationship you shared.
Memory eternal, and all our love.
Steve and June
Steve and Tess, Carol and I send our loving wishes to you both, and to your extended families. We will always remember with joy, the dinner in NOLA at Herbsaint, with Carla, when Tess was a mere pup, and our dinner in Lincoln with you and Carla at the Oven in Lincoln. And my visit to Lincoln, too! Carla had such a will to live for you and for Tess! Love love love to you, and to Tess.
Carla was active in Saint Mark’s on the Campus and we became friends when she and I served as Eucharistic Visitors. We had many visiting trips together which were very meaningful to us both I think. I was sad and felt a loss when health and other reasons lessen her involvement in Saint Mark’s. Steve and Tess please accept my sympathy at your current loss. Remember it is not the end for you or her or us. Peace, Bob Kuzelka